She'llo, I'm Michelle Leigh. My ancestry can be
traced back to the Samurai of ancient Japan. Academically I
have been educated in Business Administration. Like most I was
not educated but trained when it came to a domestic lifestyle
that included love and marriage. After two marriages the "went
south", it didn't take me long to realize that I really
didn't know much about being in that position. In life there
is a big difference between education and training. In understanding
the philosophy of IPC I soon realized that I had made many mistakes
because I wouldn't accept that my parents, those so called close
friend and conniving girlfriends couldn't show me the whys and
what fors when attracting and engaging the opposite sex.
Today my background has afforded me the ability
to step into this position of President of ICHAS. My duties
and responsibilities you may feel, restrict me to admin. for
the firm. Not so. In being raised within a Japanese household
I have deep roots in characteristics that build integrity. Loyalty
and discipline are what I speak of. In meeting Chas and being
introduced to the Art of InnerPersonal Communications I was
pleased to realized that it wasn't about changing me. No the
exposure showed me that I hadn't failed during previous interactions
with the opposite sex, but I did carry too much luggage to effectively
engage the opposite sex in a pro-active stance. One important
point I also acquired was that there is a huge difference in
effect verses affect.
Today I am fully capable in assisting in assessing
you and your needs in regards to enhancing your skills when
it comes to communicating with your significant other. With
IPC as my foundation I not only hear what your issues are, I'm
listening to them also. Again, in communications be it verbal,
visual or otherwise the dynamics are exact. Hearing is merely
the audible reception of something said. Listening is a combination
of the audible supported with the ability to understand what
you've heard, followed with assessment and analytical skills.
Once I witnessed a potential client say, "I
heard you". And yes I watched this same client continue
to make mistake after mistake while his better half sat there.
Simmering at his advancing stupidity and stubbornness. Yes IPC
is for me as it can be for you!
Everyone assumes that we are Marriage Counselors
or Relationship Therapists. Well that idea is so far from the
truth it reminds me of a line from a film entitled
(A Few Good Men) with Jack Nicholson. Where Jack says
"You Can't Handle the
As mentioned we are not relationship experts or any types of
quasi marriage counselors. I am a Specialist in presenting what
we have organized concerning IPC. And believe me there is a
huge difference between an Experts and The Specialist. It is
like the former telling you what to do based on clinical applications
and studies. With the latter knowing what they know based on
exposures and experiences on a first person level. A Specialist
provides you with organized options that will give you solutions.
We have identified this "G Thang" regarding men, and
pin-pointed the allure of "The 3 B's" concerning women.
Two factors that actually exist when we are in search of the
opposite sex. But get this, we've taken this thing a 'lil bit
further. What we have organized will add clarity in your communications
platform. Plus, once you've got it you'll really start getting
it! That is, success on various levels and to the degrees you
couldn't even imagine previously.